Please excuse me Mr. or Miss, but would it be ok if I introduce you to the truth of why I exist? My
name is Marriage, the event that once meant that she said yes to him but in today’s society it could very well be that he said yes to him. To some, the latter part of that statement isn't upsetting because they lack understanding that the Creator never meant for me to be mixed up in
that type of setting. Nevertheless, I will state my focus, which is to share with you how mankind has developed a rather skewed view of what I was originally intended to do.
For most, I begin once the date is set. The anticipation of sheer bliss puts me on the list of events folks will never forget. A room full of guest excited to witness the first kiss and see the dress, not realizing that without work and commitment this could be another moment of temporal happiness.Both dressed in their best, all because one of them said yes, possibly not even pondering on what should happen next. Placing hope in my title that I would bring forth with ease, the “better half” of them that should have been whole long before me.
Claiming that I mark the end of loose hook-ups with friends, yet when reality sets in, most lose hope in me shortly after I begin. It’s no wonder I end up broken, with them never deciding to reconcile or mend.Becoming another fragmented piece of the puzzle of life; the temporal game that can be played once,three times or as many times as you like.
The reasons to engage in me with a ring can stem from his pockets not looking thin to her sex game making me feel like Scarlet did for Ashley in Gone with the Wind. Oh and let’s not forget the times I swiftly occur because old age is creeping in. A heart filled with so much shame that envy and worry becomes its’ next akin. Biological clock is ticking so selectivity is out of sight or sometimes just plain missing. Therefore causing them to settle for anything they can catch, while secretly saying a prayer hoping that somehow they match. Shoot, it happens to the mature in age and even some of you young cats. Waiting becomes a dis-ease that not even the best date can appease, so they choose to falsely secure a future with anyone that partially fulfils their need. Reasons far off from the Creators intention or whatHe requires. Relationships built in Him are supposed to cause them to come up higher, expressing the unconditional love that He truly desires.
He designed me to be an earthly illustration of your intimate connection with Him. The thing that causes Him to love her and her to submit to him even when it seems void of worth so how did something so joyous become so full of hurt, causing pains that set people so far off course that the first thing they yell is, I WANT A DIVORCE!!! Perhaps this is not what you would like to believe, but I dare say to you that the course shifted when man lost sight of what the Creator originally intended for me.
By Melissa Johnson
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